I always forget certain things that I really should remember. Maybe you’re like me and forget them too, so I want to remind you.
• It’s alright to cry
• Your pain will never get old, and people won’t get tired of you talking about it
• You should talk when you’re feeling awful, if you need to
• If somebody forgets about you, it’s not your fault
• You’re the one with power over your emotions
• If someone doesn’t think you’re beautiful, they don’t know you
• Don’t scream at yourself for making mistakes, because you’re human
• Your happiness is as important, if not more, than anyone else’s
• You can fall in love a hundred times and each time, no one can tell you that it meant nothing
• Don’t blame yourself for being paranoid, or if you treat someone more sharply if you’re upset
• Your friends care about you and if they’re true friends, they always will
• You’re not alone
• You are not, in fact, a terrible person
• A part of the world needs you, and that part can’t be measured
• You’re wonderful, and I know you won’t believe that all the time and that’s okay
• Your heart will break too many times to count, and though the pain doesn’t lessen, you can find ways to help yourself
• You can’t always do everything alone; you need others to help you sometimes
• Your pain is valid. Other people may be going through more “serious” things but to you, your hurt is serious and it’s worth talking about.
• Letting yourself break down is natural; you aren’t weak for it.
• You may not feel strong right now, but you can build yourself up.
• This isn’t the end.
You won’t be able to remember them all the time, even most of the time; I never do. I hope, though, that they cross your mind from time to time and when you remember these things, you feel stronger.
I deserve to hear them. You deserve to hear them. It’s up to us to tell each other, if nobody else will.
From Elm 🙂
Just Call Me Elm or Something 
That’s so nice of you❤.
These are things we all forget, sometimes intentionally. This is a beautiful post, Elm.💞💞
It is as if I’m hearing God’s reply in your words…
Thank you!
Thankyou, that was a wonderful post. You don’t know how much this means for me ^^
I am SO happyt it means something to you! That’s made me happier 🙂
Funny how our posts kinda go hand in hand. Coincidence, I think not 😀 but it was kinda what I needed 🙂
I’m glad of that! And ahhaa, which post do you mean? 😀
My last one and this one
I love this, Elm ❤
That makes me so so happy 🙂 Thank you!
You’re welcome 🙂
I needed this at the moment. Thank you so much Elm. I love this. ❤️
It’s what I’m here for, and I’m so happy that it helped you! 🙂 If you ever need to talk, I’m here xx
Heyyyyy
Every thing you said? So so true. The one that struck me most was this. “You’re the one with power over your emotions” Moat times, it’s easy to forget this. I forget this so much that when shit happens, I just want to brood and not show my face to anyone any longer but really, we have the power over our emotions, though it’s not easy all the time.
Thanks for sharing this babe 💕💕
And thanks for your amazing comment! You’re right – WE have the power over what we feel, what we show; that’s okay. I’ll remember that, too.
Love this post it’s all very true and I think it could help lots of people. You’re such a great person xx
That means so much to me! Thank you; I hope I can help xx
I REALLY needed this – it’s so easy to forget most of these despite the fact that their such simple statements. Thank you for reminding us 🙂
Honestly, it’s what I’m here for:) I’m so glad I could help you!
Lovely post as always ❤ xxx
Thank you, Hannah! 🙂 xx
I’m going through something right now and this has honestly helped me. Thank you so much!
It makes me very very happy to hear that! If you ever to talk about it, then you can email me 🙂 I’m here to listen.
Thank you so much!
Thanks💙💙 This was an amazing post
Ahh, thank you so much! I’m very glad that you liked it!
Stay strong girl. Everything will be okay in time. Keep reminding yourself of these things because what you said is true, you deserve to hear them.❤️❤️
I really hope that I do. Your support means so much, as always ❤ xx
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Thanks, yo. I really needed this. 🙂
It’s okay – I’m happy that it helped you. As ever, if you need someone to talk to, drop me an email ❤
Beautiful post Elm ❤
Thank you, Lia! xx Glad you liked!
Thank you Elm 💞 These are things that everyone forgets, but we all need to remember. I love this post, because I really forget these things, a lot of times. So thank you 💕 😊😘
Good vibes 💖
Xx
Much good vibes yes! I always forget them, too 🙂 But we can remember them together.
Thank you Elm, I needed this. Love the new design! Did Caitlin do it?
No, though she’s incredibly talented! 🙂 TrainOfThought from My Bookish Life did 🙂
I love it!
Also, thank you so much!
thank you ❤
Any time 🙂 And I’ll remind you if you ever need it
I really needed to read that, thank you. It’s so easy to get caught up in a cycle of self hate and blame etc… everything you’ve said in this post is so true and honestly you almost had me crying, sometimes it’s just so damn hard to remember that I’m worth something. Thank you for such a lovely post 💗
It’s what I’m here for, and I’ll remind you of that over and over. I know how you feel, how you feel worthless and sad and lonely – I feel like that, too. Like you said, it’s so hard to remember that we ARE worth more than something. I’m so glad that I could help you xx
Beautiful post, I often forget these things. Thanks for reminding me, I needed this 🙂
It makes me very happy that I could help you! If you ever need reminding, then do let me know xx
I love this elm. Lately things have been really difficult and I’ve been trying to sty positive this really helped me remember it’s ok to be emotional and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Yes, exactly 🙂 If you ever need to talk about it, I’m here; I know what it’s like for things to just go wrong all the time.
Thanks that’s lit!
Definitely needed to read this! Thank you ^-^ xo
It’s more than okay! Glad it helped xx
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